Self-Esteem Is an Emotional Intelligence Skill

The four tendencies framework is only showing like a small piece of this and that there's, there's a whole lot more to this, this concept. So here's the defensive side. I might come in out. Yeah. Well, page 123, she says, obligers may assume their behaviors due to low self-esteem or lack of motivation or because of some character flaw. Right? We could be agree on that point. I don't know. I am an obliger. But personally, I believe that you can develop and change these emotional intelligence skills. And the key here is that you shouldn't just be excusing the behaviors that you desire to change by saying, oh, I