"I want someone who's going to exude confidence on their own those are the people that are attractive not just to me to anybody yeah okay so if you want to make a good impression stick your hand out say hey I'm Steve this is what I do and then fucking walk away," he says. "That shows total insecurity total total lack of confidence and by the way you're positioning yourself to be very small compared to this person here because that's a very small thing to say or think oh I'm not trying to kiss your ass why would I think you're trying to kiss my ass bro?"