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How to Improve Any Relationship: The 4 Attachment Styles You Need to Know & Tools to Become More Secure

The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Is There Another Word for Safe Dr. Franco?

Dr. Franco: What is going to make an avoidant person feel very safe is if you don't take their actions personally, if when they pull away they can come back and you'll kind of accept them. The anxiously attached person is like, I'm a drag you along on this journey at my speed. Because if you're not moving at my speed, I feel like you're going to abandon me. So the avoidant person wants someone that's going to be able to work on their timeline.

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