23min chapter

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Fight Right: The Science of Healthy Conflict | Drs. John and Julie Gottman

10% Happier with Dan Harris

CHAPTER

Perpetual Problems and Attempting to Change

This chapter discusses how the qualities that initially attract a couple to each other can eventually become sources of perpetual problems in their relationship. It explores how attempting to change one's partner often leads to destructive conflict. The chapter also delves into the concept of solvable problems having deeper roots related to differences in lifestyle preferences.

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