Dating strategy needs to be updated from what you used in your 20 and so being more realistic with what is partnership. You don't know the person until you pass the booster mode stage. And it's not right like the beginning stage of a relationship, the first one to six months, that's booster mode. We all have been bombarded with messages, love songs, movies that we love, that build our ideas of what love and relationship are supposed to be. If it's a strategy that works for you, keep going. But if it's not, and think about what is it that you actually want? Because our dating strategy is, in our twenties, right? We want fun