Narcisism is a pretty normal human thing. We need to sort of acknowledge everybody has some, but it's to what degree is it running my life? People w are more narcisistic have big wounds and heartbreak around their loveability,. Their value, their sense of worth. And so they need to create an inflation as a defence against that. So when you're looking at this, this underlying shame and hurt, the shame actually is the recognition if i can be present with it. It's the recognition that i am aware that i'm not being my truth. This is how the integram takes us from what seems to be malfunctioning in us and connects it with what...