The Negative Association Between Secure and Disorganized People

Fearful avoid people because it's an avoidant strategy that comes from neglect, but also from trauma or abuse. Preoccupied people don't really explore because they can't separate from the attachment figure in order to develop the capacity to explore. And so what you'll notice in disorganized people is that there's lots of beginnings, some middles but not that many finishes if any.