I was born into a culture that did not honor a faith, a wild faith inside of me. It gave me religion. Here is an outer structure that will guide you control your his wild faith and this will keep you safe and get you to heaven. So appetite is controlled. Faith is controlled. Sexuality is controlled. All the rules that women have about sex stay in the rules of all this. And if you so much as want any of those other kinds, then that is further evidence that you can't be trusted. I think that that is where one place where this whole karindome comes from. We were raised with a bunch of outer rules and structures imposed upon us to