The Insecurity of Friendship

I see this all the time, I've had several people already in the space of a week go through something like this. And what happens is they judge themselves or they make a judgment about their friend and then because they don't check in with themselves it spirals into an argument. It can sometimes be a case of that we hold ourselves to these ideals and we put ourselves into these binds and it creates unnecessary friction. We live in a time where it can sometimes have the impression that everybody's talking about stuff so much more. But at the same time there are various different ways to be a friend.