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The Importance of Being a Chooser in Marriage
A lot of times the person who's secondarily growing wants to stay in the too little too late frame because it justifies them not confronting their own anxieties. So they may be pulling down falsely because they're afraid of growing into it. They want to kind of hijack the idea that, you know, I don't trust you yet. And so it's trying to figure out which is which in that.