Is It What You Say That Influences Your Beliefs?

Most of our beliefs are actually formed from that indirectness. As a child, we don't have this ability to turn on my conscious awareness and then turn it off. We always tell the parents who are doing this work or any caregiver or teacher, anyone looking after another, that children will learn most from what you do, not what you say. They are watching you. They are mimicking you. So even if you're thinking, you know, a child's off in another room consistently or you're out of the home, even in those moments, that child is constantly scanning its whereabouts."