I'm Already Getting the Ball and Sharing My Ice Cream

If I'm going to go from an unconscious place is what you're talking about, then, and that's what I would do, right? Is I'm already imagining the need, the desire and that they can't get their own ice cream. Now all of a sudden, I've imposed my need on them. And I feel better because this person's not suffering. So if we take about the disarming, the defense, defenses don't always look horrible. They can look overly nice. Oh, yeah, we're going to talk about that in the other bucket. But if we stay in the avoidance bucket, let me make this example. If I have this ice cream and I