Amy Chan || Breakup Bootcamp
The Psychology Podcast
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The Importance of Knowing Your Relationship Plan Can and Will Change
We base our ideas of what love is on these, on what we see in the media. And so sometimes we have this plan and if we don't meet it, we don't get married by this age. We feel like we're on our way but then when that plan pivots, you just don't know what to do with yourself anymore. You've been so attached to that plan that you can almost fit anyone into that plan. That's when people do something what's called conquesting. When they're actually dating, not because not in a way where they're engaging human to human, that person is now an object,. To be like, oh, you fit here. Okay
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