Over Giving and Over Compensating in Relationships

Over giving and over compensating are examples of what's known as cognitive dissonance. We can operate with inconsistence for beliefs and attitudes and not recognize how that chisel does not make sense. In the book i talk about renovators, florences and buffers who almost treat their partners und er relationship like fixe upper projects. So they go into relationships where a's big problems going on there,. They try to make themselves the solution to the other person's problem.