I think there are always going to be periods of really hard loneliness in our twenties because of just the universal nature, the universal kind of state of change. As you grow up and as you figure out more of who you actually are, those people you were previously friends with no longer really fit that profile any more. I think it's quite dangerous. A wouldn't probably recommend it, but iam, sorry, i do understand this need to like, latch on to some one else. And sometimes it takes a little bit of effort.