The Inability to Adult

Julian Zelizer: It's fascinating to me how those pressures, which sometimes feel like they're just about the personal, can translate into some of the biggest issues that are facing this country. He says when a person has been so attended to in childhood, your parents brought you anything you forgot,. They just served, served,served, rescued, you know, we're just always there. And yet it sets up a pattern where this young person comes to believe that love looks like the other person drops everything to show up for you. Zuckerman: If they've been taught that the person who loves you drops everything to serve you, they will not be able to succeed in relationship with