Despite decades of progress closing the equality gap between men and women, close to 90 % of men and women hold some sort bias against women. i think that is one reason why the hesitation to say disparaging things about the less powerful half of the species is warranted. I don't see how hating any large segment of the population, only knowing their demographic characteristic could ever be a good thing. But i guess when i look at just the last five to ten years, especially with me too, me too exposed publicly,. for those who haden't acknowledged or been aware the horrible behaviour of a bunch of men.
Also: how can you stop ruminating?