How to Keep Things Psychically Uninteresting

i think it's a really good way that you're just trying to mix things, you know, just try toie, keep it interesting. If there's someone that's perfect for you, it's the most uninteresting, its the most psychically uninteresting thing imaginable. And that's, and then that, i mean, thit gets in to um. I like that ideabbut, ok, now, were were as, i think we do need to work ut how that distortion itself is structured, like a language, right? Cause that seems it doesn't seem like that distortion seems to fit perfectly with the froidian idea of the unconscious. But i'm not clear