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The Academy Of Imperfection - Daniel Ellenberg

The Imperfects

CHAPTER

The Mixed Messages of Shame

Shame is a core element there. I think it's a major reason. The man could have how you're supposed to be to fit into this circumscribed way of orienting. You better not go out of that or else there would be consequences. And indeed a lot of men live in straight jackets and their wives these days are going to like they want more emotional connection because they've learned that, oh, okay, I can get that.

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