How to Talk to People Who Have Trauma

I have a really bad problem if I'm in small talk with someone and they haven't complained about something or like Mentioned like a struggle that they've had. People were just like you've been fueled and like fine. I'm like I don't trust you. Yeah I don't like you're hiding something. It's like what are you? I also think you have to fuck with people that have the same kind of inherited or life trauma in a way because you agree on what is Annoyingwhat is traumatic. But it's also just like I can't relate one of my favorite things though. Um, Kathy Griffin. This was like eight 10 years ago She was like