The Power of Feigned Hyper-Independence

The person who's in this mindset can be very selective with the content that they consume and tends to be very attracted to content that speaks about 10 signs, your exes and narcissist. They go from boundarylessness to never again will I date an avoidant person or all avoidant people are a waste of time; it's kind of a shield. It's just inauthentic in the sense that it's not integrated. So that's kind of stage two, the pendulum swing to the other extreme: I don't need anyone.