One of the hardest decisions when divorcing a high-conflict spouse is how and when to tell that person that you want a divorce. How will the person react? Will I be in danger? Will my life become a worse hell?
In this episode, Megan and Bill discuss this extremely relevant and important topic, starting with a question from a listener. They will discuss:
- What should you do if your partner doesn’t know yet that you want a divorce?
- How should you tell that person?
- How should you prepare?
- What should you say? Where should you say it?
- Should you have someone with me?
- Is it okay to stay at home after delivering the news?
- What to be aware of going forward.
- Should the kids be told in advance? Or when do I tell them?
- Should the kid’s school be notified?
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Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing patterns of behavior.
- (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
- (02:17) - Telling an HCP You Want a Divorce
- (04:01) - Start With Preparing
- (08:31) - So Many Things to Think About
- (11:05) - What You'll Say and Where
- (17:28) - Should I Have Someone With Me?
- (19:02) - Should I Go Home Afterward?
- (20:21) - Going Forward
- (22:56) - When to Tell the Children
- (26:10) - Telling the School
- (27:43) - Wrapping Up
- (29:26) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: Family Law in Israel with Guest Michal Fein
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