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Jan Day: Tantra: How to Make Your Lovemaking More Connected

The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall

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The Difficult Situation of Separation

My wife and I are currently separated. We aren't talking or seeing each other, but we're open to couples therapy. But because she is being so withdrawn and cold, my emotions run high. Every time we start talking and I don't hear anything positive from her side, we end up arguing and the conversation ends in tears. There's a lot of hurt inevitably on both sides. The more that we go into that pain, almost the more we can become a threat to the other one. And actually, I've got a feeling you might be hurting too. Oh, yes. It's much easier to be received if I'm really hurting right now. Rather than you're hurting me

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