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#66 Dr. Emily Nagoski: Pleasure is the Measure

The Knowledge Project with Shane Parrish

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Are You a Giver?

Perfect trust maximizes cup cakes, which is a metaphor for the things we give and receive in relationships. "You're totally trustworthy and deserve the total trust i have given you," she says to him. But if he doesn't earn her trust, it's like 'you just took all of my cup cake' She writes: You always want the other person to end up better off - not necessarily equal.

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