I Want a Relationship and We Will Never Fight

A huge part of the value of a relationship is its robustness. Can you have tension, conflict, disagreements and come out the other side? That to me is what builds the ultimate trust in a relationship. I break down the fight languages or fight styles into three different styles: venting, hiding and exploding. Hiding is someone who wants to talk it out, talk it out now. Exploding is where people blame themselves for things that aren't their fault. It's almost like fighting so difficult because you're both going at it and it's not even like it.