Ep 29 - How to Talk Dirty with Confidence: Expert Tips from Luna Matas
What really holds people back from talking dirty in bed? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I sit down with Luna Matas who is a Sex and Pleasure Educator, to break down why dirty talk is so hard for so many of us, and how to stop overthinking and start connecting.
We explore Luna’s unique approach to helping people get out of their heads and into their bodies using fantasy, narration, and even some kink-inspired techniques. Luna also shares her favorite tools for unlocking sexy communication, some tips on how to create emotional safety for expression, and why “awkward” isn’t a reason to give up.
Whether you’re a total newbie or just looking to sharpen your dirty talk game, this episode will give you a new perspective on sexual confidence, intimacy, and how we can all learn to use our words for connection and play. Tune in for some fun and a whole lot of truth you’ll want to bring into your next bedroom adventure.
Episode Highlights:
05:09 Techniques for Effective Dirty Talk
08:57 Building Sexual Confidence
09:46 Practical Tips for Dirty Talk
15:16 Mixing Sultry and Silly in Dirty Talk
19:54 Balancing Kinky and Vanilla Needs
23:40 Learning to Receive and Set Boundaries
28:43 Body Positivity and Erotic Creativity
29:56 Continuous Learning in Kink and Sex
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