The Relationship Between Intention and Savoring

i still struggle with the idea between intentionality and savourin like my wife and i often in the afternoon, when we're both home, all make tea for us. We just take 20 minutes to look in each other's eyes and talk. And a flow is different because itit implies less conscious attention to the experience,. as savoring does. It also implies working on a relatively challenging thing. I am still trying to figure out that relationship, and i guess i need to ponder more.