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How to Lovehack Your Marriage, With Psychologist Eli Finkel

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The Slow's Hierarchy of Needs

i got married when i was 26 years old. In a couple of weeks, it will be 13 years. I think i would say growth on the person that i married is someone that i feel like i can grow with. For many of us who want our marriages to give us all these different things, it's going to take some either lowering expectations or what eli describes as love. And that's where i guess we can find happiness, is like having our expectations run a little bit closer to what it can actually give.

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