A lot of us find ourselves in a landing place when we're lacking confidence. We have some built up sense of confidence, maybe not as much as we probably should. One of the stories that i relate in the book deals with what i consider to be the greatest story from the 20 16 rio olympic games. Helen merulis won the first ever gold medal for the united states in women's free style wrestling. She had to beat a japanese woman who had won the three previous olympic gold medals and every world championship in between those three prior competitions.