#64: The Role of Criticism in Anxious-Avoidant Dynamics
On Attachment
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The Effects of Criticism on Relationships
Criticism tends to be either a reaction against feeling controlled or an avoidance attachment. "I was just in this state of total panic that if he was unable to engage with what I was telling him he was doing wrong, then it would go on forever and my pain would going on forever," she says about her ex-boyfriend. She writes: "The vulnerability just gets cased in attack and venom"
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