The Responsibility of Fault Fallacy

There is a simple realization from which all personal improvement and growth emerges. We don't always control what happens to us, but we always control how we interpret it. Choosing to not respond to the events in our lives is still a response to them. It comes back to how, in reality, there is no such thing as not giving a fuck about anything. The real question is: What values are we choosing to base our actions on? What metrics do we use to measure our life? And are those good choices, good values and good metrics?