The Role of Attachment in Relationships

We all learn how to be in relationships based on those early experiences with our parents when we're little. And that learning is what actually structures the hardware, you could say. It tells us like, is it okay to get angry? You know, when somebody hurts us, is itOkay to get turned on? Maybe it's not. So that's kind of an example of how these action systems get structured by those early experiences and what we learn in our families.