Are You Being Deferential to a Woman?

A lot of guys think that being polite or being sort of a nice guy means being totally deferential to a woman. I actually think that's disrespectful to women because you're infantilizing them in a way. Women are adults. They can say, no, that doesn't work. How about 730? Or how about a different location? And then I'll just suggest something. If if somebody wants that sort of deferential consideration and they like that, then you're giving them what they like. You want to see where it goes.