I think most people lack at least one of those if not all three of those in reality. We live in a victim culture world we live in a world where everybody is celebrated for passing the buck kicking the can down the road talking about their hardships crying about their fucking traumas and that's not the world I grew up in. You're gonna be judged upon the results you produce whether that's with your family or friends, it doesn't matter to me what anybody thinks right now so don't give a fuck who you are  you might think none of that shit matters but there will be phases when you look back on how much wasted time you've spent trying to do something different than