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Conflict is not abuse

Book • 2016

In *Conflict Is Not Abuse*, Sarah Schulman examines how conflicts are often escalated into accusations of abuse, leading to injustice and exclusion.

She argues that both traumatized individuals and those in positions of power may overstate harm to avoid accountability.

Schulman advocates for community intervention and dialogue to resolve conflicts constructively.

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Mentioned in 3 episodes

Recommended by

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to a caller dealing with relationship conflict.

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as providing great language for understanding the impact of trauma and supremacy cultures.

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Mentioned by

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as her favorite book title ever.

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Mentioned by

Thais Sky

as a book that helped her understand conflict and how to navigate it.

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Mentioned by

Eric Newman

as one of

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's books, focusing on conflict and abuse.

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as a good book on conflict resolution and recognizing abuse.

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