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Conflict is not abuse

Book • 2016
In *Conflict Is Not Abuse*, Sarah Schulman examines how conflicts are often escalated into accusations of abuse, leading to injustice and exclusion.

She argues that both traumatized individuals and those in positions of power may overstate harm to avoid accountability.

Schulman advocates for community intervention and dialogue to resolve conflicts constructively.

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Mentioned in 3 episodes

Recommended by Dan Savage to a caller dealing with relationship conflict.
Savage Lovecast Episode 960
Recommended by Matt Tebbe as providing great language for understanding the impact of trauma and supremacy cultures.
Ep29: SBC Annual Meeting & the Role of Denominational Institutions in Our Lives, with Matt Tebbe
Mentioned by Thomas Smith as a good book on conflict resolution and recognizing abuse.
DOD209: My Kids Stopped Talking To Me for NO Reason
Mentioned by Eric Newman as one of Sarah Schulman 's books, focusing on conflict and abuse.
Sarah Schulman's "The Fantasy and Necessity of Solidarity"
Mentioned by Thais Sky as a book that helped her understand conflict and how to navigate it.
Ep. 138 Unpacking Relational Healing with James-Olivia Chu Hillman

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