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Mentioned in 4 episodes
The new topping book
Book • 2003
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Mentioned in 4 episodes
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as one of several classic BDSM guides that informed her practical, contemporary approach.

Shelby Devlin

16 snips
The Kink Book That Actually Tells You What to Do with Shelby Devlin
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as a clear guide to healthy and unhealthy dom/bottom dynamics, with real-life applications beyond kink.


Lucy Baldwin

Power Dynamics and Shadow Work
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as one of the guest's books about BDSM roles and practice.

Eamon Armstrong

#8 - Dossie Easton: Why We Play Dark Stories
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to a caller interested in exploring BDSM.


Dan Savage

Savage Love Episode 996
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when discussing empathy in tops within BDSM dynamics.


Kate Sloan

We Heart Sadists!
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as a resource for understanding the mindsets and dynamics of BDSM and power exchange relationships.

Wyoh Lee

290 | We’re Only Getting Better: Six Years of Sex Stories
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as one of the early practical/insightful books they read when exploring kink and roles.

Addison Finch

Leather Whenever
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as part of his kinky book-club reading that informed his understanding of BDSM roles and practice.

The Queensman

#123 The Good Boy: Submission, Tantra & Latex with The Queensman
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alongside related works while discussing books that shaped her understanding of erotic liberation and sexual power.

Dr. Nicole

283. The Liberation of Our Ethical Sluthood - Dr. Manijeh Badiee



