Stop investing in people who won't invest in you. If someone is emotionally unavailable or unwilling to support you, it's self-torture to continue investing in them. Many people fall into the trap of trying to win over emotionally unavailable individuals, turning it into a status game. This leads to a toxic cycle and impacts self-worth. The best action is to disengage from such relationships. It's not a sign of giving up but realizing they are not the right fit, allowing you to find a healthier connection sooner rather than later.
What if the answer isn’t to do more? What if the answer is to want less?
I’ve always believed that subtracting from your life can produce better results than trying to add something. Generally, quitting a bad habit, or a bad mindset, or anything distracting, will have a bigger impact on your life than learning more.
This episode covers a few things I think we should stop doing to live a better life. Enjoy.
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