Anne Lamott's thoughts on love, writing, and being judgy
Worklife with Adam Grant
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Help is the sunny side of control
A significant realization is highlighted about the concept of help being intertwined with control, where excessive helping can actually turn into a form of controlling behavior, which can be toxic for both the helper and the ones being helped. The distinction between autonomy-oriented and dependency-oriented helping is discussed, emphasizing the importance of supporting others in what they believe is best for them rather than seeking validation through being needed.
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