Looking Beyond Fault: Understanding Individual Characteristics

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The fixation on fault emerges from the desire to assess the goodness of oneself and others. Instead of solely focusing on fault, a more enlightened approach involves understanding the inherent nature of individuals. By viewing people as 'such sort of person,' similar to a robot designed for a specific function, one can avoid a reactionary and emotional response when faced with undesirable behaviors. This perspective encourages assessing situations based on individual characteristics rather than rushing to judgment based on fault.

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Is nothing objectively true? What kinds of things are we trying to communicate with the stories we tell? Why do we feel the need to take a side on every issue? Which sorts of issues should be tied to our identities? How can we set the definitions for terms in a conversation, if possible? Should people just believe whatever works for them? Is it better to try to compensate for our biases or to reduce them? Should we strive to have lower confidence in ourselves and our abilities? How should we think about assigning blame when something goes wrong? When should we say yes or no to new opportunities? To what degree should we try to optimize our lives?

Derek Sivers is an author of philosophy and entrepreneurship known for his surprising, quotable insights and pithy, succinct writing style. Formerly a musician, programmer, TED speaker, and circus clown, he sold his first company for $22 million and gave all the money to charity. Sivers’ books (How to Live, Hell Yeah or No, Your Music and People, and Anything You Want) and newest projects are at his website: sive.rs

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