#745 - Brad Wilcox - Is Marriage Actually Worth It?
Modern Wisdom
The Soul Mate Myth: A Realistic View of Love and Marriage
The soul mate myth is the unrealistic belief that love and marriage are about finding someone who perfectly fits you and makes you happy all the time. This myth is perpetuated by romanticized views in songs, movies, and books. However, physiological evidence shows that the initial high of meeting someone fades over time. A more realistic view of marriage involves cultivating romance but also understanding that marriage is about more than just feelings. It includes aspects like financial management, companionship, and raising children. True love is about seeking the good of the other person, not just relying on fleeting romantic feelings. Couples with a realistic and richer view of marriage are more likely to have lasting and fulfilling relationships without being overly influenced by changing romantic feelings.
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