As people age, they embark on a path of self-discovery where they figure out their interests, values, and goals in life. This self-evolution leads to a narrowing of potential friendships as individuals diverge in their preferences, lifestyles, financial status, and values. People in their 30s and 40s often reminisce about their vibrant social lives in their 20s, not realizing that during youth, everyone was at a similar inexperienced level. With maturity, individuals determine their career paths, personal preferences, and financial stances, which decreases the pool of suitable friends due to varying lifestyles and values. The process of self-discovery and personal growth ultimately shapes the kind of friendships one can form as they progress along their individual paths in life.
Making friends is hard, and unfortunately, as you get older, it gets harder.
In this episode, we look at research behind friendships, plus the complicating factors people experience in making new friends as they get older.
And for anyone struggling with their social lives, we share practical tips on how to meet and keep new friends.
Enjoy and, good luck out there.