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Ep. #1167: Charles Duhigg on How to Be a “Supercommunicator”

Muscle for Life with Mike Matthews

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Ask Deeply to Connect Meaningfully

Asking the right questions significantly enhances conversations, often making individuals 10 to 20 times more inquisitive than average. The distinction between deep and surface-level questions is crucial; deep questions delve into values, beliefs, and personal experiences, enabling more meaningful exchanges and self-expression. For instance, instead of inquiring about a doctor's workplace, asking about their motivations for entering medicine fosters a deeper understanding of their identity and perspective. Additionally, conversations consist of three layers: practical, emotional, and social. Practical conversations focus on logistical aspects and problem-solving, while emotional conversations center on sharing feelings, often seeking empathy rather than solutions. Recognizing these layers allows for richer, more impactful interactions.

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