Domestic partnerships, while resembling marriages, lack the formalities and commitment mechanisms that contribute to the durability and quality of marital relationships. Data suggests that these partnerships may result in shorter duration and lower relationship quality. Additionally, cohabiting couples miss out on numerous legal benefits and protections afforded by marriage, driving the advocacy for same-sex marriage based on the desire for full legal recognition and the symbolic significance attached to marriage. The distinction between a contract and a covenant implies that marriage holds greater social value, providing societal recognition and support that enhances the union.
Marriage has long been considered a goal to aspire to and a conventional path to happiness. But over the last few decades, the traditional view of marriage as the cornerstone of adult life has been questioned. Changes in economic conditions, gender roles, and cultural values have fueled a reevaluation of whether marriage is still desirable or necessary for personal fulfillment and social stability. Those who believe it’s better to get married argue that married individuals report better physical and mental well-being, compared to single adults. They also experience economic and social benefits. Those who believe it’s better to be single say singledom helps promote independence, allows individuals to make decisions freely, makes it likely to create broader social networks and communities, and feel more fulfilled than they would if they felt pressured to be partnered.
Whether you are in a relationship or not, we debate the following prompt: Married or Single?
Arguing Married: Jonathan Rothwell, Principal Economist at Gallup
Arguing Single: Bella DePaulo, Social Scientist and Author of "Singled Out" and "Single at Heart"
Emmy award-winning journalist John Donvan moderates
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