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#647: Mark Manson — The Path to 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck,' The Ups (and Downs) of Success, The Craft of Writing, Personal Reinvention, How to Build a Lean Team, Protecting Boundaries, Decompressing with Fiction, and More

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Hold Your Boundaries

Setting and holding boundaries is essential for maintaining good relationships, both personally and professionally. It can be challenging to confront others when they cross our boundaries, but it is necessary to address it in order to have healthy relationships. Failing to set and hold boundaries can result in finding oneself in a state of confusion and uncertainty. Making exceptions to our boundaries sends a message that we do not follow our own rules, leading to others testing our limits. This can cause frustration and anger among people. It is crucial to hold strong lines and avoid making exceptions, as it can lead to messy situations and difficulties in navigating unclear boundaries. The ability to say no to things we do not want to do is a valuable skill, but as we progress in our careers, the challenges of saying no also increase. Continuously learning and practicing the skill of setting and holding boundaries is important as we climb higher in our personal and professional lives.

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Mark Manson (@IAmMarkManson) is a three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck as well as other titles. His books have sold nearly 20 million copies worldwide and have reached number one in more than a dozen countries.

Since 2008, he has written articles at MarkManson.net, one of the largest personal-development blogs in the world, with more than a million monthly readers. In 2023, a feature film about him and his work will be released in theaters by Universal Pictures. See SubtleArtMovie.com for more details, and click here for the trailer.

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[07:02] Difficult changes and modified default behaviors.

[10:22] Be careful what you wish for.

[12:14] How Mark’s feature film deal came to be.

[15:55] The teamwork that makes Mark’s dream work.

[20:26] Sourcing talent.

[24:45] How Mark knew he’d found the right agent.

[28:36] From Entropy to F*ckery.

[47:21] Learning the subtle art of strategic F-bombing.

[56:31] Prioritizing health maintenance.

[1:04:04] Co-authoring a book with Will Smith.

[1:11:34] In a post-slap world, what should we know about the real Will Smith?

[1:16:36] How Will Smith depends on and interacts with his team.