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Stoic Wisdom on Taking Offense
Taking offense is a choice, as highlighted by the Stoics, particularly Epictetus. When confronted with hurtful words, it's essential to recognize that the offense taken is a complicit reaction. Words spoken by others are merely sounds and can hold no power unless we assign meaning to them. Labels like 'rude' or 'damaging' stem from our internal perceptions about external statements, which we ultimately have no control over. This perspective encourages individuals to reflect on their reactions and understand that offense is self-generated, empowering them to detach from external judgments.