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How to Deal With Emotionally Immature People (Including Maybe Your Own Parents) | Lindsay C. Gibson

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Balance Your Intentions When Interacting with the Emotionally Immature

To effectively interact with emotionally immature individuals, prioritize being present and centered through practices like mindfulness or meditation. Focus on expressing your needs for your own benefit rather than to change or transform the other person. Maintain clear intentions for the interaction, aiming for a successful exchange rather than improving the relationship, which can trigger defensiveness in emotionally immature individuals. Recognize that you may not receive emotional reciprocity and set realistic expectations accordingly. Establish boundaries to protect yourself and ensure the interaction aligns with your goals without being influenced by their emotionally immature dynamics. Maintaining an optimal distance helps in managing relationships, especially family ties, while avoiding deeper emotional investments that may not be reciprocated.

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