Many couples tend to slide into major milestones like moving in together, getting engaged, or having kids, rather than making a conscious decision. This can lead to choices based on convenience rather than what is best for the relationship. For instance, moving in together often starts with leaving a few clothes at a partner's place, then staying over more frequently, until suddenly, without a proper discussion, the couple ends up living together. This pattern of 'sliding' can result in significant life decisions being made without intentional thought or planning.
This week we are discussing the ups and downs of living alone in your 20s: from the freedom and independence, to the loneliness and social isolation, financial anxiety and stress, but the authenticity and emotional maturity that comes with it. We talk about:
- Why being alone doesn't make you lonely
- Sliders versus deciders - why you should wait before moving in with a partner
- Cognitive distortions and overspending
- Lifestyle creep
- Habits for building social connection and community
- How to successfully live alone
All that and more, listen now!
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