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3 Nephi 17-19 Part 1 • Dr. Matt Townsend • October 7 -13 • Come Follow Me

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Turn Towards Connection to Strengthen Relationships

Communication theory identifies the concepts of 'bids' and 'turns' as essential for relationship health. A 'bid' represents an invitation for connection, while a 'turn' is the response to that invitation. Research highlights that the most successful couples turn towards each other 86% of the time, indicating a strong connection and syncing with one another. In contrast, couples at risk for divorce respond only 33% of the time, reflecting a lack of engagement. Turning is fundamental not just in romantic relationships but extends to spiritual ones, emphasizing the importance of consistently responding to calls for connection, whether through partners or spiritual practices. This concept of turning can also be interpreted as a form of repentance, reinforcing the idea that continual turning back strengthens connections. The central question posed is whether individuals are willing to turn towards their partners and respond to bids, acknowledging that consistent engagement fosters deeper bonds and enhances relational quality.

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