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Don’t Argue or Fight With a Difficult Person – Do This Instead (#1 Narcissism Expert)

The Mel Robbins Podcast

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Illuminate Without Accusing

It is essential to approach sensitive conversations with empathy and subtlety rather than direct confrontation. Instead of labeling a situation as toxic, engage in gentle inquiries to show concern and connection, such as asking if someone is okay or expressing curiosity about their absence. This technique mirrors the strategies used to reach out to family members involved in harmful groups, like cults. Rather than accusing them of being in a cult, which can lead to defensiveness, it’s crucial to evoke memories of their past life and interests, thereby breaking the emotional barrier and opening pathways for healthier dialogue and reconnection.

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