Communal Living is already prevalent, but it happens during specific phases of life

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Living in community is common during two phases of life: college years and elderly years.
Communal living is normalized during important life phases.
Raising young children requires a lot of help and support from others.
Having wider networks of neighbors and family members can alleviate the pressures of parenting.

“Today’s future-positive writers critique our economies while largely seeming to ignore that anything might be amiss in our private lives,” writes Kristen Ghodsee. Even our most ambitious visions of utopia tend to focus on outcomes that can be achieved through public policy — things like abundant clean energy or liberation from employment — while ignoring many of the aspects of our lives that matter to us the most: how we live, raise our children, and tend to our most meaningful relationships.

Ghodsee’s new book, “Everyday Utopia: What 2,000 Years of Wild Experiments Can Teach Us About the Good Life,” is an attempt to change that. The book is a tour of radical social experiments from communes and ecovillages to “platonic parenting” and intentional communities. But, on a deeper level, it’s a critique of the way existing structures of family and community life have left so many of us devoid of care and connection, and a vision of what it could mean to organize our lives differently.

Mentioned:

“The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake” by David Brooks

Saving Time by Jenny Odell

Book Recommendations:

Pirate Enlightenment, or the Real Libertalia by David Graeber

The Dispossessed by Ursula K. LeGuin

Gender and the Politics of History by Joan Wallach Scott

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